Relationships

So i think that i would have to say i need to work on my parent relationship. There are days that i feel that i am a horrible mother, i am so busy with life that i can not take the time out of my day to spend a lot of time with my kids. It seems like i go right from school to work and then when i get home i am tired and get ready for bed. I have watched myself lately actually before we talked about relationship and seen how i act with my children, and what i have came across is that i yell a lot and seem to be to busy and i notice the looks from my oldest son when i can't go and do something with him and all the behavior that he has been showing because i have "been to busy". So what i have come up with is that i need down time for me and them to be together. I am going to work on my yelling, which i think is just coming from being tired and never seeming to have a break anymore, because i never used to be this way and it is not an excuse, i need to learn to handle the stress in my life some way and some how. SO i am going to start by taking an hour everyday and trying to get our relationships back to where they need to be, if makes me feel horrible when they go to their grandparents for attention :-( so i am going to be there, and taking cuts out of other areas in my life like work, because my kids need to be and are more important than that!